My mom makes me feel bad about my weight?

-Hello everyone,

I've always struggled with being comfortable in my body. I used to be sickly skinny. I wasn't happy with it because I was always made fun of for it. I am okay with my body right now. I am muscular. I am 5'3 and 115-120 pounds. My body weight fluctuates. I know that I am a bit overweight, but I try to feel good and accept it. I eat healthy and exercise twice a day. My mom always makes little rude remarks here and there and they make me feel really insecure. I suffered from bulimia for 2 1/2 years, so my confidence is the highest. I never say anything because I don't want to start a fight. I don't know how to deal with this. I know she will deny everything. Help?Let your mom know that you already fully aware of any issues with your body, as it is YOUR body. Tell her that you know she means well, but she isn't helping. Let her know you need her full support, and encouragement, instead of discouragement. Remember to try and stay calm when you confront her.
Wow,what kind of mother make rude remarks about they're childs weight,moms are suppose to make you feel better.! I'm sorry for you,if that was my mom,I'd tell her off.
120 is not alot!? How old are yu though? Don't let her think you are overwieght because your not, you are perfect weight.
what a ***** a moms job isnt to make her child feel bad its to give them the confidence they need to live in the world
well if u is fat then be fat...of course everybody gonna laugh at u,so just get used to it
my advice is:

start the fight. she'll never know how you feel if you don't
Talk to a school counselor. I AM sickly skinny and I can't do anything about it it's just a mix of a high metabolism and genes. My mom was really skinny and both my sisters too. My counselor helped me a lot and brought my confidence up. Now when I get bullied I have the confidence to fight back and put the brat in their place. Also NEVER give up evey time any one knocks you down then just brush yourself off and get back up! Just confront her about this. I know it sounds hard but she is most likely trying to make sure you are at a healthy weight. moms may be trying to help but they don't always realize they are being hurtful
You are not overweight. If you look at weight-height charts (designed by medical professionals) you are exactly where you should be. Furthermore if you exercise and eat right you are most likely strong and healthy and, as muscle weighs 3 times more than fat you may weigh more than a weakling who is your height...that is ok.

Best guess is that your mother is insecure (whether it's about her weight or other peoples opinions or whatever) and she is projecting her insecurities onto you. I would say something like 'why did you say that about my weight? It makes me feel really insecure'. See what she has to say. If she denies saying anything offensive you can remind her that she does not get to tell you how you feel and you felt her remark was rude and/or demeaning, and you would like it if she were more concious of what she is saying. Like I said before it probably has very little to do with you and more to do with whatever is going on with her, you are just an easy but unfortunate outlet for her to take her crap out on.

Again look at height-weight charts, you are a perfect weight.