I really care about what other people think of me and how i look, I see girls looking very pretty?

-Everyone looks really good and I have dry frizzy curly hair and excessive body hair and people look at me weird, I am also chubby cos i comfort eat. I have just started plucking my eyebrows because of my unibrow was too much but i make a mess of everything. I am depressed and embarrassed and lonely and find it difficult to speak to people. Why are people so judgemental and hurt you about appearance. Why are people so cruel. I have a lot off stress at home aswell and feel uncomfortable to go to a beauty salon as They would think i was weird and a terrible sight too. I cry because i am lonely and stressed and because I am stupid and dont know how to be a feminine. why are other girls soo pretty and I am a hairy monkey with frizzy dry hair. Why does life hurt soo much.you are beautiful. god makes no mistakes. you are rich because you have both your legs and arms ,eysight, the ability to walk, to interact. you have to make your self believe your beautiful.i know you have probably heard this saying before....true Beauty comes from the inside not the outside....and u wanna know something my mom looked kinda like you when she was younger and now she is gorgeous.it doesn't matter what you look like when your younger because that's just a short year spanned. so don't ever feel like your ugly because most good guys look at your personality and attitude more then looks...
awww, i'm sure you are beautiful in every way! ignore all the horrible ones & make good progress in life, and show everyone what you can do. if you are that worried about your looks, try visiting the salon, hairdressers and all sorts. there are loads of things you can do about it! i hope your problems go away soon:)
Anda harus diet, dan berusaha memperbaiki penampilan diri anda agar terlihat menarik.
I am completely serious on this one... Not trying to be mean in ANY way...



See a therapist. You will be given so much help and support.
Just wax the body hair, get a japanese perm, and go on a diet. Easyyy!
Don't be down about your appearance! If you have dry hair, you should try herbal essences shampoo and conditioner specifically for dryness. if that doesn't work, you probably need to visit a salon. Trust me, not everyone who goes in a salon is gorgeous . I think girls tend to look down on people who aren't a stick and are close to flawless. But that's only because they want to build up their self esteem. Love yourself for who you are! :) You will find yourself happier if you do. ( oh and the salon will give you a richer shampoo for dry hair if needed)
Don't listen to what people think about you. You're beautiful just the way you are. If you think you aren't beautiful you still are on the inside. People can be so cruel and I hate it.

You aren't stupid so don't think that. A lot of people have a hard time be feminine too. You aren't the only girl that's hairy, a lot of women are.

If you really wanna get rid of your frizz you can try an anti-frizz shampoo, anti-frizz gel, or straightening it.

Think positive of yourself. I know I have times when people and life hurt so much, I just think positive and sometimes it makes it better. You'll find somebody that you can talk to someday. You aren't alone.

I don't blame you that you're difficult to speak to people. Maybe you'll meet someone at school who has the same interests as you.

You're wonderful the way you are. Everybody has their flaws. It's okay ;)
i am a 23 yr old boy 5'2"(its too short for a boy)

i never had girlfriend and i feel lonely too.

Yeah i know how it feels when they stares you very odd. I used to hate lots of people.

Sorry but i cant help you.

I know the thing you can change.

Have self esteem , stand up and fight .

And there people who dont care how you look.

Find your PASSION and peace. Always remember life is always worth living .

Yeah there people are who are gifted and they dont even need to struggle(i m jealous of justing bieber :)) but this is life you can call it unfair it aint gonna change . And there are thousands of people having much worse life. You atleast have food shelter cloths and oportunity to prove yourself. Remember never let anybody hurt your self esteem, kick the things that doesnt meant for you. This system/world/universe is free for you to enjoy and it aint even care how you look neither do it belong to any particular one.



For salon they only care about your money